Has anyone got any stories of being criticised on their vulnerable function?
I presume this is vulnerable Fe; I was criticised for misbehaving the other day. At a social event, a child continuously tried to pull my wallet and keys out of my pocket, and I lifted the child's hands clean above her head so she couldn't, and then told another child to tickle her. Several adults saw only the part they wanted to see, and were appalled.
Anyway, I am seldom angry (roughly 4 times in my life so far), but this made me exceptionally angry. I started thinking that they were hypocritical and judgemental jerks. I caused absolutely no harm to any child at all, but I was being judged pointlessly.
I presume this is vulnerable Fe; I was criticised for misbehaving the other day. At a social event, a child continuously tried to pull my wallet and keys out of my pocket, and I lifted the child's hands clean above her head so she couldn't, and then told another child to tickle her. Several adults saw only the part they wanted to see, and were appalled.
Anyway, I am seldom angry (roughly 4 times in my life so far), but this made me exceptionally angry. I started thinking that they were hypocritical and judgemental jerks. I caused absolutely no harm to any child at all, but I was being judged pointlessly.
Vulnerable Criticism
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