Member Questionnaire (dademartin)

Member Questionnaire 1 (dademartin)

What is beauty? What is love?

It is only skin deep, to me beauty comes from within side a person* Love is when you have found someone that you can share, tell and act your self around

What are your most important values?

Being honest, having a good heart, morals and family

Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?

I am Baptist and even though I have done my share of wrong I always make things right with GOD because I could not living everyday of my life knowing that I was going to hell.

Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?

Power to me is when someone is strong enough to do the right thing no matter how easy it is to do the wrong thing

What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?

Wanting to do right by my family and constantly being able to stop relapsing so that I can watch my daughter grow up and take care of my sick husband

Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?

I try to eat healthy and am very conscious about my weight, I also love to take long baths, I have a facial procedure that I go through every night in order to keep my skin looking healthy and I drink a lot of water

What do you think of daily chores?

I am very OCD and feel that there is never enough time in the day to get everything done that needs to be done and it drives me crazy

Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.

I love all James Patterson books and I haven't really watched any good movies lately because I am in College and spend most of my time on the computer doing school work

What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?

Seeing the disappointment on my daughters face when I relapse and do not come home.

Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?

I sometimes feel as though I do not belong anywhere because I had my daughter late in life and everyone is always calling me her grandmother and I know deep down that has to hurt her and I continue to put my mom and husband through hell and I can not seem to please the people in the drug community anywhere

What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?

The mistake my kindness for weakness and I let them because I want to fit in so bad and be accepted. I hate that I am not a strong person and that I have no willpower.

What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?

I have a good heart, I am caring, People tell me that I am beautiful inside and out, and I love my family with all my heart

In what areas of your life would you like help?

I would like for someone to show me how to become a stronger person and say no to the right person instead of the wrong one

Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.

Yes, sometimes I feel as though I am just stuck in this life with no purpose

What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?

I hate that people will use you for everything that you have until someone better come along and I hate especially how people lie because they think that is what you want to hear to get you to do what they want.

How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?

I am very happily married to my best friend and love.

If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?

My main concerns would be to make sure that she is always safe and out of harms way and I would want her to know that it is okay to help most people but that some people will take advantage of that so she has to pick her friends wisely

A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?

I would not do what they were asking of me and I would flat out tell them that they are wrong if I thought they were. I do no sugarcoat anything and always am the first to state my opinion

Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.

My relationship to society is in very good standing. I have lived in the community that I live in now for 14-15 years and I know a lot of powerful people that respect me and think highly of me also.

How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?

I used to be a pretty good judge of character, but lately, I am beginning to wonder if I am not choosing the wrong ones

How do you behave around strangers?

I have never met a stranger as my husband would say.

Member Questionnaire (dademartin)